Monthly Archives: April 2016

Balancing Recreation and Responsibility

Time Bucket

An important skill in life is learning how to manage your time. Philippians 1:10 says, “Make sure of the more important things“. Teaching children this at a young age will help them immensely as they grow older. A good starting point is teaching them to balance the time they spend enjoying recreation with caring for their responsibilities.

JW.org has a great Balancing Recreation and Responsibility worksheet to help teach this principle. You can find it under the Bible Teachings – Teenagers – Worksheets section. The worksheet uses an effective illustration that compares recreation to sand, responsibilities to rocks, and a bucket to represent time. The order in which you put the sand and rocks into the bucket will determine if you can make them Responsibility Worksheetall fit. The illustration teaches the point that by putting your responsibilities first (the rocks) and then filling the time left with recreation (the sand) one can make the best use of their time (the bucket) and fit everything in. The worksheet then goes on to have each person analyze their personal recreation and responsibilities and see how best they can balance them in their lives.

We used this worksheet as a basis for a discussion during our family worship. We started by having each child perform the illustration themselves. Instead of sand, rocks, and a bucket we used sugar, corks and a cup. These were things we had readily around our home. (Yes, we had plenty of extra corks at home!) They did it twice, once putting the sugar (sand) in first and the second time putting the corks (rocks) in first. This helped make the illustration stand out and be memorable.